Archive - off the record

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Mar 18

How do you define "race" in America?I’m curious to know how people define the following terms: Race Racism Whiteness Let’s talk about it.

Mar 16

another random update

Mar 3

February 2023

because I have been missing in action for at least three weeks

Feb 22

January 2023

I want to go, but also, I want to stay home.

Jan 31

Why are men on these online dating apps so weird?

Jan 27

Bad experiences change me in different ways.

Jan 24

Because the “Strong Black Woman” trope is killing us.

Jan 18

I am, after all, a dickologist. Don't worry, this post is safe for work.

Jan 15

The year in review so far.

Jan 11

a disclaimer of sorts

Jan 2

December 2022

This is off the record, a memoir in newsletter form. storytelling is a revolutionary act. this is mine.

Dec 14, 2022

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